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Lovely blog.. Hit it right on the head. I hate when it gets thrown around so carelessly. A filler, a compliment. Not real LOVE. A lot of people these days don't get what it truly means. Glad you have it! Rachel Mae
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it is sad that it gets used for good and evil on regular basis without the true feeling behind it. unconditional. period. that's all i can give. and it feels good. great post!
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Oh I tho you were declaring your love to one of the many ladies in here I was like, who knows, let me go check. maybe is me I do understand what you are saying. To me that is actually a very powerful word to just throw around.
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I Love You..... ... I think our culture needs to come up with more definitive wording for expressing feelings of attachments at different levels. The Germans would be great at this. How often we banter that line around.... Over used. Too much. To the point it's really cheap. Oh how abused it has been....... indeed. When I was younger, if you moved beyond "I like you" then it must be love..... Yes, but it really wasn't. We just grew up trusting all the hype. And yet, that has changed as I have aged....gotten older.....heck, gotten old... Yes, I agree, here too. "I love you" means different things to each of of us, as it should.... ."As it shouldn't mean different things to each of us". It could be done. For example, everyone knows what a red traffic light means, everyone knows what a green traffic light means, everyone knows what a weather report showing rainy clouds or sun shine means, everyone knows what "Do not enter" means. I mean, we are all different after all..... We are, but that's not a good excuse to keep this a vague matter of description. and yet, "love" should have some higher value, some upper level of appreciation..... ... Yes, but it doesn't. I suppose for now it depends on how many Lucky Charm cereal hearts you can pick out and plop in her hand. Personally, I try really, really hard not to abuse it.....I only bring that line out when the clouds part, the sky opens up, and She takes my hand, looks me in the eye, and it becomes so clear..... ... Maybe the clarity is , "I want to fuck you", and not "I love you". Probably clear a lot up. Betcha that would solve a lot of problems. Stage one: I like you, Stage two: I want to fuck you, .....and if ever Stage three happens: I love you. But usually stage 3 would/should be very special. Like for weddings, that would still be "Stage two" in many cases for when people get married in less than 3 years.
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I love my child fiercely I have three friends that I love deeply I have only truly loved one man, ever......at least so far.....in that abiding way of which you speak. family........that's hard because the blood draws you and you feel that....even when you don't much like them it's tough. people say it all the time.....I love potato chips....grins. but to say it and mean it.........boy, it takes guts You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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I love you can be used in so many different forms, and I only use it when I really mean it..
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Robert Frost says Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.... For me I think there is a big difference between saying I love you meaning I love who you are, versus I am in love with you. I love people from my past and would be there for them but I am not in love with them in the same context as before. I guess in some instances I should put a disclaimer on my "I love you's"
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Great post and hopefully it makes people think about it before saying it. If you like a story come visit my blog streamsitter
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It is a contextually dependent statement isn't it. I love you = I love the way you look. I love your bank account and what it can provide. I love the way you make me feel. I love what you do for me. I love how you express yourself. I love being friends with you. I love the things we do together. I love your charm. I love your wit. I love how we work together. I love etc. etc. etc. Maybe people should finish their sentences. Vive La Difference
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