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4/9/2018 5:16 pm |
Mutual pleasure in what ever form is what it should be all about...
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You can Cockhold me!! I am made for your pleasure...and you can tie me up too!!
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....and I would rather have you pleased all the way to Climax!!
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It's alway nice for the woman to tell me some of the things she likes and doesn't like before sex. As we start I'm feeling what I can as I try to do what she likes. I've alway take my time and get hints from her as I touch her body. When I touch it in a good way I'll do it more if I don't feel like she likes what I'm doing I stop than and try something different.
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4/9/2018 6:58 pm |
The whole premise of deriding you for expressing what it is you want makes zero sense to me. I can't imagine any woman putting up with an attitude like that for very long, if at all. The best sex is the shared experience, the exploration that leads to pleasure for both {all?} parties. Even though being dominated doesn't turn me on, I recently had the experience where she moved my had to where it needed to be for her pleasure. That simple gesture was so incredibly hot. And I'll always appreciate a "Yes, right there" or even a simple "Mmmmmm" when I getting it right. It's all about the communication and using that to take you both over the edge.
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I think it's very important to talk about sexual needs and wants with your partner
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When someone's desire is their own pleasure, they should just masturbate, the end result would be the same. Why take a jet to one location when there is so much more to take in on a slow journey. Pleasure to be found just around the next curve.
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My lady , having a calm , sated woman taking about her sexual needs, demands two preconditions fulfilled : - Being calm and sated,which means you have done your part - Having enjoyed it, hence She has , ergo, subconsciously retelling it, demanding continuation Basic human needs actually , fulfilled by ritualistic all nighters,where lovers mostly talk ,exchanging views,and getting to know each other - regardless of the chances to meet again - or not . Or When Now,categorizing it into "cucks" ( not entirely sure of the relevanceof the meaning there anyway) ,or acronyms , or what else, usually comes across as mundane and demeaning. Not the best intro for a fruitful series of sexual sessions in my opinion Cheers, and enjoy the spring moonlight P
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When a woman describes how she likes sex do you automatically whip out the words "femanazi" or "cuckold" or "selfish"...?? No definitely not. I'd much rather have that than a "I dunno" if I asked a woman what she wanted from me. Do you avoid women that know what it takes for mutual pleasure, or she at least knows how to make herself orgasm? Absolutely not. Is mutual pleasure such a bad thing??? It's a great thing. Sure I'll make her the centre of attention at times or we'll take turns about, but shared affection is great. What are your thoughts on mutual pleasure/slow sex/tantric/anything but a quickie? (Men I'm interested in your view for sure) As per the above, I'll make her my focus at times and we might switch roles, but I do like a "warm up" before getting intimate. I've never been in a relationship where a quickie before work was an option but that idea doesn't appeal to me too much. I'd prefer spending the time and exploring. How do you (male readers) want her to tell you how she enjoys sex? Any way she likes, so long as I know what helps her.
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I like for a gal to tell me what she likes, I make it my goal for her too enjoy herself and I have found my orgasms are that much better when she is having a orgasm. I have to admit it is not as easy as it used to be. I guess I am out of practice. Ha ha Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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Flower— A woman who’s confident about what she wants sexually, is comfortable sharing that information with her partner, and then goes about getting it (and giving it back in return)? She’s EXACTLY the kind of woman I’d love to spend time exploring with... I personally love doing whatever I can do to understand what my partner needs to reach a multiorgasmic state, then doing my part to help her get there. And I can’t for the life of me understand why a man would balk at having their cock worshipped, receiving a long, slow, sloppy, sensual blow job, or having their prostate massaged by someone who knows what they’re doing. Personally, the more I read of your blog, the more I want to get to know you! Best, AJW
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Ms. Flower, I am going to keep it simple. I want to know what you want, so I know what to give you!! it's that simple...I am here to please you and I would like for you to please me. The objective is satisfaction and orgasms!!!
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Let me answer your last question. How do you (male readers) want her to tell you how she enjoys sex? I suggest that you tell it like a story. Tell your best night from the past or your biggest fantasy. I think that will help tell your partner as what you are looking for . When a woman describes how she likes sex do you automatically whip out the words "femanazi" or "cuckold" or "selfish"...?? No. I think if she is enjoying it then it mean more pleasure for me. I enjoy having my partner enjoy. Do you avoid women that know what it takes for mutual pleasure, or she at least knows how to make herself orgasm? Never. it means I have a friend who is willing to help me help her What are your thoughts on mutual pleasure/slow sex/tantric/anything but a quickie? (Men I'm interested in your view for sure) mutual pleasure and slow sex is more fun then Wham Bham Thank you mam Quickie is just a quick release. It does not stimulate my mind....(well real mind)
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Well then I would say lets flip it and have men explain what they are looking for. Some of them may still lie, but at least you will save your energy >> I used to write erotica and tell about my hot nights....but I found that most of the guys contacting me basically wanted that version of my story handed to them in a nsa hookup. What they didn't understand that all my stories where about 'established' partners and not about random hook up guys. So I stopped writing about the hot nights (plus lack of good dates in the last 5 years) because of the guys that would contact me demanding I give that to them right now. Lol >>
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